Relationships.

[BumblebeeCody]

(08-13-2012 04:12 PM)Nuudoru Wrote:  

(08-13-2012 09:22 AM)BumblebeeCody Wrote:  

(08-13-2012 06:41 AM)Nuudoru Wrote:  

(08-13-2012 02:29 AM)Xannidel Wrote:  If you try to do that then you may be looking for a long long time for that girl. To me, relationships will have their ups and downs and yes even including random bickering over silly topics such as Pixar related stuff. Sometimes it is best to just swallow your pride and just agree with her because you know that in the end it is better to agree and enjoy the rest of your day then disagree and possibly have a fight that will end up pissing you off.

Then again i am a rather passive person so if I find the right girl and we have silly fights then I would hope that things would not escalate to fighting or shouting.

Well, the problem is that I only have this issue with her. With my other friends we never fight like this. Sure, once in awhile we might get in a heated argument but we can let it go at once. But this girl.. We always let it go too far. I don't know why.

Also, if we look at the example of letting it pass and not arguing against her. That solution just seems so.. Whipped? Why would I have to be the one to not argue about it and just go on with it? She argues about it just as much as I do. Not saying what I have in mind just to be in a relationship just seems pretty damn pathetic.

Just a question, is there something about her you know that no-one else does or do know, but don't want to confront her about. For example, does she lie a lot and you want to call her out on her BS but don't because you care?

No, not really. If there's anything that's BS about her is that she can be so god damn boring. And the only reason is like that is because she has a HUGE complex about being younger than every other friend she has. It's a long story to why this bothers me so much, but it's basically because she tries too hard to be tought and adult and because of that doesn't really care about trying out anything new, or liking anything that might against that persona.

Have you tried telling her that?
Saying whether she is young or not, as long as she has respect that's important or that it doesn't matter regardless.