Relationships.

[SERIOUSLY THOUGH]

(08-20-2012 11:10 PM)Xannidel Wrote:  Okay so I seem to be having issues, or at least a concern. Why do people feel that rushing into a relationship is a GOOD thing? To some of you, there is a girl I like and her name is Ami, she has never had a bf before and she has taken to liking me (for some reason or another) and her roomate (and my friend) wants us to be together and I agree but I do not want to rush into this relationship because I am afraid that we might have gone into this too quickly. We have not even known each other for half a year yet and have hung out face to face about 3 or 4 times in total. To me that is NOT enough time to justify feelings or even wanting to date because we have not hung out that much. Yes we do text but not on a daily basis and to me that is fine because I do not want to keep bothering here with small talk when she could be busy.

Am I wrong for thinking that it is too early to date her? I just do not want her first relationship to get ruined because we rushed into a relationship. I believe Ami understands me wanting to wait but our friend says that the longer I wait the less likely she will be interested in me.

I just want to know what I should do.

From what I can tell, you like her, she likes you, you haven't known her for that long nor do you hang around that often.

I say try to meet up with her some more. Dating can happen even if you don't know someone very well (e.g. happens a lot with online dating), and is the best way to see if you're compatible and enjoy each other's company.

The "rushing into it" would be trying to kiss her from the start and talking about baby names. Just go out a few times together and see how it goes.