Relationships.

[Nuudoru]

(07-19-2012 01:52 PM)BumblebeeCody Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 09:05 AM)Nuudoru Wrote:  -snip-

I never understood the whole "parents butting in thing". Did her parents have this issue when they were growing up? If not, then why be a douchebag to someone who wants to date their daughter? It's pathetic interfering.
I might be wrong her, but it sounds to me like she was needy because she really liked you. Then when you finally met she settled down. That's what I seems like, which is good. I think it shows that she really liked you(if a bit too over bearing at times).

(07-19-2012 09:05 AM)Nuudoru Wrote:  (1 So nowadays my view of relationships at all isn't a very good one. I have always been surrounded by bad ones, and been in a very bad one. Some might say that I might be stu....

@1 No. I don't think it's bad. After 4 years I think maybe changing your mind might be better. I'm sorta in the same emotion/thought about relationships as you. It's because you realise you truly loved someone but they somehow managed to ditch you and move, find someone else and leave you in the dark. So you end up having a "shitty" attitude. You pretty explained how I feel about future relationships too. Do I really want to go through that again?
Correct me if I'm wrong on this.

Her parents butted into pretty much everything. She was always "daddys little girl" and they had planned out a lot of her life for her. I often felt bad for her because there was so much she wanted to do, but never could because her parents thought it was stupid. I don't think they were straight out bad parents though, just old fashioned. In the end I helped her get them off her back to do things she really wanted so I guess it worked out. I have never really doubted that she at least mof of our relationship really liked me. She proved that to me many times. If I lived in her town we would undoubtly been together for a long time.

Sure, I'm very well aware that changing my attitude towards relationships would probably be healthy. But as I've said before, it's not a risk I'm willing to take. I will end up being bitter like this until someone comes a long and unconsciously changes it.