Here's my genuine story.

I've loved three women in my life. The first was a relationship that ended when it should have ended. The two others never fucking happened and now I'm vague friends with one and don't even know the other.

I've shagged about and stuff, and contrary to general opinion... shagging random women is horrible. It's depressing, in the end.

(07-19-2012 09:05 AM)Nuudoru Wrote:  Kudos to you if you actually read this through.

Fuck yeah, I love kudos.

Really sorry to hear what happened to you, and I don't think anyone can fault you for feeling the way you do. I honestly do hope that you'll eventually find someone that you truly feel you can be comfortable with and ultimately trust.

Wish I could say more than that, but it's not like I can speak from experience.

(07-19-2012 09:39 AM)Beardy Wrote:  I've shagged about and stuff, and contrary to general opinion... shagging random women is horrible. It's depressing, in the end.

Hahaha, as much as it sucks to admit, this is 100% true.

Wow. Everyone's been through so much. I feel like everyone deserves rep just for posting in this thread. If anyone ever needs anything, feel free to message me. I'm not a shy person, and I always give an honest opinion.

(07-19-2012 11:23 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  Wow. Everyone's been through so much. I feel like everyone deserves rep just for posting in this thread. If anyone ever needs anything, feel free to message me. I'm not a shy person, and I always give an honest opinion.

Would you like to have a close relationship with me and then bitterly break up? SHUT UP, I HATE YOU.

Well, everyone's always gonna have baggage, but it speaks highly of everyone who's willing to share it here.

(07-19-2012 11:32 AM)Beardy Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:23 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  Wow. Everyone's been through so much. I feel like everyone deserves rep just for posting in this thread. If anyone ever needs anything, feel free to message me. I'm not a shy person, and I always give an honest opinion.

Would you like to have a close relationship with me and then bitterly break up? SHUT UP, I HATE YOU.

Well, everyone's always gonna have baggage, but it speaks highly of everyone who's willing to share it here.

Yes. You beautiful sonofabitch. We already have all these damn kids on the forum, might as well!

I agree. It makes me feel better to talk about it, and if I can help some girl going through the same thing, then it's worth it.

(07-19-2012 11:40 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:32 AM)Beardy Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:23 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  Wow. Everyone's been through so much. I feel like everyone deserves rep just for posting in this thread. If anyone ever needs anything, feel free to message me. I'm not a shy person, and I always give an honest opinion.

Would you like to have a close relationship with me and then bitterly break up? SHUT UP, I HATE YOU.

Well, everyone's always gonna have baggage, but it speaks highly of everyone who's willing to share it here.

Yes. You beautiful sonofabitch. We already have all these damn kids on the forum, might as well!

I agree. It makes me feel better to talk about it, and if I can help some girl going through the same thing, then it's worth it.

So long as I get the money. You can keep the kids. We'll tango once every year. We'll dance in the Ritz so long as you buy me a ballgown.

Still, yeah, it's nice to be able to un-burden this stuff. Especially for Nuudoru, man, that must have been built up for a while.

(07-19-2012 11:51 AM)Beardy Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:40 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:32 AM)Beardy Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:23 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  Wow. Everyone's been through so much. I feel like everyone deserves rep just for posting in this thread. If anyone ever needs anything, feel free to message me. I'm not a shy person, and I always give an honest opinion.

Would you like to have a close relationship with me and then bitterly break up? SHUT UP, I HATE YOU.

Well, everyone's always gonna have baggage, but it speaks highly of everyone who's willing to share it here.

Yes. You beautiful sonofabitch. We already have all these damn kids on the forum, might as well!

I agree. It makes me feel better to talk about it, and if I can help some girl going through the same thing, then it's worth it.

So long as I get the money. You can keep the kids. We'll tango once every year. We'll dance in the Ritz so long as you buy me a ballgown.

Still, yeah, it's nice to be able to un-burden this stuff. Especially for Nuudoru, man, that must have been built up for a while.

50/50 on kids and money. You've got a deal on the tango, Ritz and ballgown.

(07-19-2012 12:02 PM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:51 AM)Beardy Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:40 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:32 AM)Beardy Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:23 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  Wow. Everyone's been through so much. I feel like everyone deserves rep just for posting in this thread. If anyone ever needs anything, feel free to message me. I'm not a shy person, and I always give an honest opinion.

Would you like to have a close relationship with me and then bitterly break up? SHUT UP, I HATE YOU.

Well, everyone's always gonna have baggage, but it speaks highly of everyone who's willing to share it here.

Yes. You beautiful sonofabitch. We already have all these damn kids on the forum, might as well!

I agree. It makes me feel better to talk about it, and if I can help some girl going through the same thing, then it's worth it.

So long as I get the money. You can keep the kids. We'll tango once every year. We'll dance in the Ritz so long as you buy me a ballgown.

Still, yeah, it's nice to be able to un-burden this stuff. Especially for Nuudoru, man, that must have been built up for a while.

50/50 on kids and money. You've got a deal on the tango, Ritz and ballgown.

I don't have to shave, do I?

(07-19-2012 12:04 PM)Beardy Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 12:02 PM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:51 AM)Beardy Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:40 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 11:32 AM)Beardy Wrote:  Would you like to have a close relationship with me and then bitterly break up? SHUT UP, I HATE YOU.

Well, everyone's always gonna have baggage, but it speaks highly of everyone who's willing to share it here.

Yes. You beautiful sonofabitch. We already have all these damn kids on the forum, might as well!

I agree. It makes me feel better to talk about it, and if I can help some girl going through the same thing, then it's worth it.

So long as I get the money. You can keep the kids. We'll tango once every year. We'll dance in the Ritz so long as you buy me a ballgown.

Still, yeah, it's nice to be able to un-burden this stuff. Especially for Nuudoru, man, that must have been built up for a while.

50/50 on kids and money. You've got a deal on the tango, Ritz and ballgown.

I don't have to shave, do I?

Of course not. That's blasphemous. Or however it's spelled.

(07-19-2012 06:45 AM)Beware of Cuccos Wrote:  3- The reason I use the term "time is running out" is because i've always wanted a family, but women only have a certain number of eggs. Men can reproduce all their lives, but a womans most fertile period is between the ages of 25-35.
Ah OK I didn't think about that. That's pretty unfair then really. I hope you find who you're looking for sometime soon then and they treat you well

5- I wish I could get sleeves! I've got them where a tshirt can cover them when i'm at work, but a tank top shows them when i'm at home.
Awesome! I plan on getting one

I JUST WANT THE DARLING TO MY HONEY. Is that so much to ask?

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(07-19-2012 12:43 AM)BumblebeeCody Wrote:  Now gather around kids(and people older than me) as I explain my story. *Strums guitar*

I was around the age of 16-17 when I found true love. I've only ever had one girlfriend and it was OK. Nothing bad happened but we split up once we went to different secondary schools. But I went the entire of secondary school without getting a girlfriend, mainly because I didn't find to my liking or because I couldn't return the feelings. I wanted to wait to get into the open world and find someone there. I did, and my days, was she awesome. Liked Pokemon, loved Anime and Manga, had a great sense of humour, had a lovely American accent and was probably the best looking madam in the world. No female whether famous or not could compare to the sheer beauty of her. She only wore light makeup too. We met a few times are London convention and damn I enjoyed spending time with her. Even going to see her in Leeds at one point. One of the best times I ever had was staying up till 5am everyday during a week holiday. Just us two on webcam watching videos or drawing silly images on MSN.

But I often found she used to lie about herself. Making up parts about what she's done and who she knows. Even though, I knew she was lying I never called her out on it. Then, 2 years since we first met I was told by a friend that the name I knew her by wasn't her actual name. So for two years the person I've has been speaking to non-stop on MSN even met in person, wasn't actually her name. I never told my friends about her because it would seem kinda pointless, I had none person to talk to then because she also knew her(still friends). But I pretty much had to through it on my own.

The amount of pain, knowing that you fell in love with someone who, pretty much, didn't exist is horrible. I put a lot of trust in her and loved her more than anyone. Was pretty much the perfect girl but it wasn't really real. Kinda hard to explain.

See I like the more down to Mars girls than the ones who are the "irritating" type. I don't find girls who wear lots of makeup or show off big boobs attractive. I love a girl with a strong sense of individuality. Has intelligence, humour, self dignity and doesn't flaunt herself (and obviously has the same interests). I don't find those Cheryl Cole/Megan Fox types attractive in anyway because they lack any decent qualities, which obviously results to me being called gay by other wanker males. So when I do find one, I respect them a lot more.

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You poor thing that sounds like a shitstorm. I'm sending you virtual hugs as we speak You'll find your soulmate!
I really did enjoy having someone like that around because I've never had someone like that in my life. Even after 3 years you still get the odd thought. I still have a picture she drew for me hanging on my wall too. It's kinda nice to have...

Sometimes I feel like wearing a lot of makeup, but even then I only wear eye makeup. I hate face makeup. But most of the time I don't wear any at all, or just eyeliner/mascara. As far as the big boobs thing goes- i'm a 36DD and it is very hard to find clothes that fit properly. If I wear certain types of tshirts, it squeezes on my chest and it's harder to breathe. So a lot of the time I wear very low cut shirts, but very rarely do I do it for attention. When I do do it for attention, it's for the simple purpose of getting laid. All other times, my boobs are out because it's the only way I can breathe haha.

I get you. I just think that girls who only rely on their assets are the worst. I wouldn't be surprised having large boobs though, one of my friends tells me the issue of breathing or even lying in bed. Ridonculous. I try not to look at a decent(the good kind) girls boobs because I often felt like I am disrespecting her.

(07-19-2012 09:05 AM)Nuudoru Wrote:  -snip-

I never understood the whole "parents butting in thing". Did her parents have this issue when they were growing up? If not, then why be a douchebag to someone who wants to date their daughter? It's pathetic interfering.
I might be wrong her, but it sounds to me like she was needy because she really liked you. Then when you finally met she settled down. That's what I seems like, which is good. I think it shows that she really liked you(if a bit too over bearing at times).

(07-19-2012 09:05 AM)Nuudoru Wrote:  (1 So nowadays my view of relationships at all isn't a very good one. I have always been surrounded by bad ones, and been in a very bad one. Some might say that I might be stu....

@1 No. I don't think it's bad. After 4 years I think maybe changing your mind might be better. I'm sorta in the same emotion/thought about relationships as you. It's because you realise you truly loved someone but they somehow managed to ditch you and move, find someone else and leave you in the dark. So you end up having a "shitty" attitude. You pretty explained how I feel about future relationships too. Do I really want to go through that again?
Correct me if I'm wrong on this.

Women... fuuuck..

(07-19-2012 01:55 PM)duundermifflin Wrote:  Women... fuuuck..

You post this after the call? ;D

I found that it was actually hard for me to put myself out there and find love. 95% of the time I feel like I'm not capable of love (long story, not suitable for children... or anyone really), and wonder what my wife sees in me. I'm had a terrible love life. I've been cheated on (but have never done the same), abused, etc.

Long sad sob story short - I'm married now, and I don't understand how someone liked me enough to do that :/

(07-19-2012 02:38 PM)Arjahn Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 01:55 PM)duundermifflin Wrote:  Women... fuuuck..

You post this after the call? ;D

Hahaha yup.

(07-19-2012 01:52 PM)BumblebeeCody Wrote:  

(07-19-2012 09:05 AM)Nuudoru Wrote:  -snip-

I never understood the whole "parents butting in thing". Did her parents have this issue when they were growing up? If not, then why be a douchebag to someone who wants to date their daughter? It's pathetic interfering.
I might be wrong her, but it sounds to me like she was needy because she really liked you. Then when you finally met she settled down. That's what I seems like, which is good. I think it shows that she really liked you(if a bit too over bearing at times).

(07-19-2012 09:05 AM)Nuudoru Wrote:  (1 So nowadays my view of relationships at all isn't a very good one. I have always been surrounded by bad ones, and been in a very bad one. Some might say that I might be stu....

@1 No. I don't think it's bad. After 4 years I think maybe changing your mind might be better. I'm sorta in the same emotion/thought about relationships as you. It's because you realise you truly loved someone but they somehow managed to ditch you and move, find someone else and leave you in the dark. So you end up having a "shitty" attitude. You pretty explained how I feel about future relationships too. Do I really want to go through that again?
Correct me if I'm wrong on this.

Her parents butted into pretty much everything. She was always "daddys little girl" and they had planned out a lot of her life for her. I often felt bad for her because there was so much she wanted to do, but never could because her parents thought it was stupid. I don't think they were straight out bad parents though, just old fashioned. In the end I helped her get them off her back to do things she really wanted so I guess it worked out. I have never really doubted that she at least mof of our relationship really liked me. She proved that to me many times. If I lived in her town we would undoubtly been together for a long time.

Sure, I'm very well aware that changing my attitude towards relationships would probably be healthy. But as I've said before, it's not a risk I'm willing to take. I will end up being bitter like this until someone comes a long and unconsciously changes it.